“I’ve got to go to work.”
“I’ve got to go to school.”
“I’ve got to go to the doctor.”
“I’ve got to….” Just fill in the blank.
Every day we say we got to do something and it is usually something we would rather not do. But by changing one word you can change your entire attitude towards doing whatever it is you got to do. Not magic, not over hype Pollyanna happiness, but serious attitude change.
That change is go from “got” to “get.” Now think how these same got to dos sound when you get to do them.
“I get to go to work.” I’m not unemployed. Might not be my dream job but I have work, which will make it easier to get a better job.
“I get to go to school.” This provides you the opportunity to learn more, meet more people, and have more (get a better job.)
“I get to go to the doctor.” Unlike much of the world, there is a doctor available for me. To make me feel better.
The chores are the same, but the idea is different when you get to do something. Get implies opportunity, something special just for you, and has an element that this might be fun.
When I’m looking a pile of dirty clothes that need to be washed, I remind myself I get to do the laundry because I have more than one outfit and washer and dryer, and the chore isn’t so bad.
Give “get” a try. You’ll be surprised what a difference that one word can make in your attitude.